Our Belief, Our Team
We believe every child deserves to thrive from the start, and that begins with the families, educators, and communities that surround and support them.
Temilola Oyenuga
Founder & Creative Lead
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Sage Dennis Assaim
Editor-in-Chief
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Our Story: The Founder's Note
I often say that children are my favorite people in the world. This saying began during my application to the Teaching and Learning PhD program at Florida International University in 2023, where I spent hours scribbling and erasing, unsure how to begin my statement of purpose. I wanted something inviting; something that captured the essence of who I am without exaggeration. After countless sheets of paper rolled into balls and tossed in the bin, the phrase finally struck me. Since then, it has found its way into the opening line of every essay I have ever written.
I would not describe this expression as a clever tagline. It is simply the truth. Children are my favorite people in the world, and I take them seriously. My commitment to them is rooted in both who they are capable of becoming and all that they already are: endlessly curious, wildly imaginative, and deeply sincere. I remember vividly a moment from eight years ago that not only confirmed these qualities but also propelled me to dedicate my career to their development. My nephew and I were having an animated conversation about superheroes — the best and the bravest. It was the kind of discussion children fill with wild gestures, imaginative leaps, and earnest conviction. With a depth one rarely imagines in a child, he explained that everyone’s version of a superhero reflects the superpowers they wish they had but never believed were possible.
Then he paused and asked me: would your favorite superhero still be your favorite if they didn’t have the power they had? If they had something else you didn’t like, would you still choose them? If you could have that superpower yourself, would superheroes mean the same to you then?
In that moment, I saw another world through his eyes and was reminded once again of how these giant minds in little bodies possess windows into a world we adults often overlook. Where we see objects, they see wonderment; where we see chaos, they see opportunity; where we see routine, they see invitations to curiosity. These small, everyday moments reaffirm for me that nurturing children should not be only about teaching right and wrong or passing down content. It should also be about honoring the brilliance within them and helping it shine brightly.
Years later, when I moved to a remote community in Badagry, Nigeria, I witnessed how easily children’s brilliance could shrink in the absence of an enabling environment. Rustic classrooms, scarce resources, and systemic neglect had dimmed the sense of wonder in the children I met, and they had grown weary of asking questions, as their curiosity was often met with silence. I realized, then and there, that the potential of every child cannot flourish through a single person’s conviction; it requires recognition, collaboration, and community. Most importantly, it requires a specialized kind of knowledge that adults must cultivate. It was there, in that quiet village amid chalk-stained walls and worn wooden desks, that the seed for Childhood Today was planted.
Childhood Today is, at its heart, a response to every child I have met, and yet to meet, whose light simply needs the space, knowledge, and nurturing spark to shine. It is a space where empirical insight meets real-life application, and where communities come together to reimagine what it means to raise thriving, thoughtful, and resilient children in our world today. Childhood Today is a hub for parents, educators, advocates, researchers, policymakers, and every children’s nurturer to unlearn and relearn for their sake. It is a hub for remembering that childhood is not a stage to trivialize or treat as a mechanical fix, but one to recognize, understand, respect, and protect.
When these values begin to radiate unhibitedly into the homes, schools, and communities children interact with, and they begin to experience the liberating joy of these nurturing spaces, flourishing unreservedly in them, then my vision for Childhood Today will have been realized.
Welcome to Childhood Today — the home for those who take children seriously, too.
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I often say that children are my favorite people in the world, and I take them seriously. This saying began with a yearning application to the Teaching and Learning PhD program at Florida International University in 2023, where I spent hours scribbling and erasing, wondering how to begin my statement of purpose. I wanted something true and inviting; something that captured the essence of who I am without exaggeration. After hours of trial and error, that expression struck me, and it has since found its way into the opening line of every grant, scholarship, and conference application I have written.
I would not describe this saying as a slogan or a clever tagline. It is simply the truth. Children are my favorite people in the world, and I will always take them seriously. My commitment to them is anchored in two reasons: the first, in who they are capable of becoming; and the second, in all that they already are: endlessly curious, refreshingly honest, wildly imaginative, and deeply sincere.
I remember vividly a moment from eight years ago that not only confirmed these qualities I have always admired but also propelled me toward dedicating my career to their education and development. My nephew and I were having an animated conversation about superheroes, the best and the bravest, the kind of discussion children fill with wild gestures and earnest conviction. With a depth one rarely imagines in a child, he explained that everyone’s version of a superhero reflects the superpowers they wish they had, but never believed were possible. Then he paused and asked a series of follow-up questions: “Would your favorite superhero still be your favorite if they didn’t have what they had? If they had something else you didn’t like, would you still choose them? What if you could have that superpower yourself? Would superheroes mean something to you then?” In that moment, I saw the world through his eyes, a place where the ordinary becomes profound, where insight shapes reality, and where every question is an invitation to wonder.
That simple exchange stayed with me. Children possess a window into the world that adults often overlook: where we see objects, they see tools for discovery; where we see chaos, they see opportunity; where we see routine, they see invitations to curiosity. Where we are hesitant or restrained, they express sincerity and courage. It is in these small, everyday moments that I find my greatest inspiration—the understanding that nurturing children is not merely about teaching right and wrong, or passing down content and routines, but about honoring the brilliance already alive within them and helping it flourish.
Years later, when I moved to Anglo Boglo, a remote community in Badagry, Nigeria, for a teaching position, I realized that this sense of inspiration is not meant to remain a private, lifelong feeling; it must become an active call to action. That realization struck me as I painfully witnessed how easily children’s brilliance and curiosity could shrink in the absence of an enabling space. Overcrowded classrooms, scarce resources, and systemic neglect had dimmed the sense of wonder of the children I met in this little town, and they had grown weary. They hesitated to ask questions because their curiosity had long been met with silence—not from indifference, but from the limited awareness that comes from generations of seeing children as mere numbers rather than as whole beings to be nurtured.
In that moment, I understood that the potential of every child cannot flourish through a single person’s conviction; it needs recognition, collaboration, and community. Most importantly, it needs a specialized kind of knowledge that everyone must cultivate. And it was there, in that quiet village amid chalk-stained walls and worn wooden desks, that the seed for Childhood Today was planted.
Childhood Today is, at its heart, a response to every child I have met, or have yet to meet, whose light simply needs space, knowledge, and support to shine. It is a space where academic insight meets real life, where ideas become practice, and where communities come together to reimagine what it means to raise thriving, thoughtful, and resilient children in our world today. Childhood Today is a hub for parents, educators, advocates, and every lover of children to unlearn and relearn for children’s sake, a reminder that childhood is not a stage to rush through, ignore, or treat as a mechanical fix, but a wonder to understand, respect, nurture, and protect. I hope that through this platform, children will be able to experience the liberating joy of enabling spaces in their homes, schools, and communities, and flourish unreservedly. When that happens, my work here will have been done.
Welcome to Childhood Today—a home for those who take children seriously, too.